Safety and trust

You decide what is shared and who may get closer.

Safety is present at every step — not hidden in the terms.

Private from the first wish

Your list is private by default. Share only the wishes for which you want company.

Nobody can send private messages until both people accept; a private connection opens only after you share common ground.

Exact locations are shared only with approved participants; first meetings should be public.

A blocked person disappears from recommendations, invitations, messages and future small groups.

Evidence access is restricted and moderation decisions retain an action history.

Dating requires 18+ attestation, explicit opt-in and bilateral compatibility.

If you are in immediate danger, leave the situation and contact the emergency services where you are. Gomet is not an emergency service.

Add a trusted contact, make a public-place plan and schedule a private check-in.